The theory of emotional nihilism.

There is something incredibly soothing about simply not giving a fuck about how a relationship turns out one way or the other, it's like a security blanket. To never commit fully to it is something you can do to cushion the blow in the incredibly likely event of a breakup. This does have it's dangers though, as being that detached should come with trepidations, like almost becoming a sense, never really being completely there.Which is more dangerous, being there with great risk, or never being there at all?